领悟

我以为我会哭
但是我没有
我只是怔怔望着你的脚步
给你我最后的祝福
这何尝不是一种领悟
让我把自己看清楚
虽然那共爱的痛苦
将日日夜夜
在我灵魂最深处

我以为我会报复
但是我没有
当我看到我深爱过的男人
竟然像孩子一样无助
这何尝不是一种领悟
让你把自己看清楚
被爱是奢侈的幸福
可惜你从来不在乎

啊!一段感情就此结束
啊!一颗心眼看要荒芜
我们的爱若是错误
愿你我没有白白受苦
若曾真心真意付出
就应该满足

啊!多么痛的领悟
你曾是我的全部
只是我回首来时路的每一步
都走的好孤独
啊!多么痛的领悟
你曾是我的全部
只愿你挣脱情的枷锁
爱的束缚任意追逐
别再为爱受苦

我以为我会报复
但是我没有
当我看到我深爱过的男人
竟然像孩子一样无助
这何尝不是一种领悟
让你把自己看清楚
被爱是奢侈的幸福
可惜你从来不在乎

啊!一段感情就此结束
啊!一颗心眼看要荒芜
我们的爱若是错误
愿你我没有白白受苦
若曾真心真意付出
就应该满足

啊!多么痛的领悟
你曾是我的全部
只是我回首来时路的每一步
都走的好孤独
啊!多么痛的领悟
你曾是我的全部
只愿你挣脱情的枷锁
爱的束缚任意追逐

啊!多么痛的领悟
你曾是我的全部
只是我回首来时路的每一步
都走的好孤独
啊!多么痛的领悟
你曾是我的全部
只愿你挣脱情的枷锁
爱的束缚任意追逐
别再为爱受苦

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0smyOCCPoZk&feature=related

害怕

我每当失落时,就会害怕某些事情.
害怕一个人在家里,会寂寞.
害怕一个人在外,会碰到不想碰到的人.
害怕一个人付出了感情,会得不到相等的回报.
害怕一个人面到对方时,会不知所措.
害怕对别人付出了爱时,会得到不想要的伤害.
害怕当你得到某些东西时,而它却离你而去.
害怕出门在外,会碰到以往的回忆
害怕当你翻看你的电脑时,会找到不想看到的东西.
害怕在外人面前,你的失落会被人发现.
害怕自己不是自己想像地坚强.
害怕听到某些东西时,会让你想起他/她
害怕看到某些情景时,会想到当初你和他/她的约定.
害怕他/她会突然电邮你,而内容却不是你想要得到的.
害怕听到他/她的声音,而压抑不住自己的情绪.
害怕失败,害怕被伤害
害怕爱,也害怕被爱.
所有的害怕,让我感到无助,也让我更害怕自己.

潇洒

很多人都说.爱情是残酷的.既然是残酷的,那为何人人还渴望和追求呢?当你被爱情伤了又伤的时候,你又可否会很潇洒地说你还是相信爱情呢?爱情,能让人感到兴奋,可是,也能让人感到无比的痛苦.当你和他在甜蜜期时,总会对他千依百顺.可是,为什么当分手时,那些不满的东西都会被拿出来比较呢?批评别人,会让对方好过一点吗?那为何就不潇洒一点,说了再见以后,就不要再伤害对方呢?原本以为自己能潇洒地放手,可时最让人可悲的是自己也不知道自己想要的是什么.人就是那么地矛盾,那么地无知.原以为能天长地老,可是换来的却是一场失落.可是,当你在悲哀后,你才会发现原来你所要得,不是你可以得到的.懦弱的背后,总有坚强的一面.自己的失落,到了谷底时,也就应该爬起来了.我害怕爱,因为爱在我人生里从不成好过,每回以为自己找到了对的对象时,才发现原来残酷的事实.我想说的是如果一天你发现你已经不爱她/他的时候,请不要用伤害对方的方式去解决事情.因为当你不爱她/他时,你可否又知道他/她是否也这样想呢?那既然如此,为何就不潇洒点,可怜那个悲哀的他/她,而减少她/他的痛苦呢?

分手了，何必再要做朋友。。

“我们分手吧，分手之后，我们还是朋友，对吗？”，这是有心人对你讲的话，除了要表现他们的大将风度之外，他们更渴望能新欢旧爱，共聚一堂。　　　　

原本相爱的恋人，面对分手，或有不得已的原因，或有不得告人的理由．而分手之后仍要做一对朋友，岂不是把过去的一切又带回自己的生活中？何苦呢？当然，我也不赞成分手之后，变成 了敌人、仇家，互相中伤对方，恨不得把对方至于死地。　　　　

看到以前的恋人，生活比你幸福，你会不会嫉妒？当以前的恋人，兴奋的带着新恋人做介绍时，即便你装做满不在乎，但心里的滋味……　　　　

你又何苦自己找黄莲来嚼呢？如果以前的恋人生活的不幸福，你的旧情加上同情心，一定会想很多……毕竟,你们以前是相爱的恋人，你们也曾经拥有过美好的爱情生活，面对以前的恋人失意迷茫，你会伸出援助之手吗?你会不会又落进那感情的旋涡呢？　　　　

最后，大家都有了新的一半，你继续和以前的旧爱做朋友，新情人心里会怎么想，藕断丝连？新欢肯定心中不满,更可怕得是，在猜疑与辩解中，生成几何关系来。当然，也有一些成功的，但是听起来，总是有丝丝的尴尬。　　　　

未曾刻骨铭心，分手后做朋友又谈何容易？看着自己以前的恋人，与别人亲亲我我、欢天喜地，你肯定会有……何必自己做戏给自己和他们看呢？已经分手了，为什么还要刻意的去维护一种近似超越友谊的关系呢?不如把它封在心里，怀念,或者扔掉，它，迎接新的一段生活。　　　

分手了，何必再要做朋友？ 否则，何言分手？

The meaning behind ...

It was a lovely day today, with a cup of nice cappucino...I was having this lovely conversation with a friend of my ..and his GF ....the conversation started quite well n end up discussing about r/s ...about women and man ..about what ppl wan in their life .... n end up having this conclusion that woman always aware of wat they want when they get older ....and man are being the other way round ....i been noticing that women are cruel when it comes to an end in a r/s while man always being silly and un-known about what they want vice-versa .....But why is that ??why cant ppl being abit open with what they want and always being flexible...?why cant ppl do that in terms to achieve target together ...some says that u guys in terms of partner need to always share the same 'Goal'...but what r the same goal .....if u r not willing to share the same goal ...will there means the relationship should end ..?how often that u can find the same goal together ...why cant each other just compromise together ..compromise each other wills ...compromise each other willingness ...and ambitious together ...!!!as what ppl always said ....man are like Wine and women are like Cheese ...The older the man are ...they are more rare ...where the older the women are ....the less chance of them getting a guy ...Im not totally convince with the saying as why should the man become older...they can attract women easily ....and wise versa....Does that means that woman are more realistic when they gets older ....??I hate that personally ....If u love or willing to spend ur life with someone..then u need to not caring about if he/she had the money ....u need to care and know that either u can spend the rest of ur life with him/her .....thats the main thing .......

All are only my own opinions .....but this is wat i thought ....Willing to give up everything to the others doesnt means that the other will apperciate it ..but this is just me ..another silly ben and another silly episod of mine ...!!!

lolz ...


U need to touch the leg of the pope statue to make wishes ..and hope that the wishes u made will come true ..!!!n me...cooby ...vincent and my little dearest sister did it ....once in our life time ...and hopefully what We wish will come true in Life ....

好人卡

最近才发现当好人,最后的结局就是得到一张好人卡.好人卡....好人卡........无聊的卡!为什么会是我?!!哈哈哈.....可笑,也可悲........


一首自己很喜欢的歌,

男人女人

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_2ueOgGUuE

Wishes...

HAve u ever made a wish and hope that the wish will come true..?then how many wishes have u made then?u made a wish ...and then hope that the wish will come true...meaning that in total ..is already 2 wishes ..isnt it ?but will the wishes that u wish to come true always happened to be the way it should b?ppl keep saying ..life is beautiful ....if life is beautiful ..then why ppl still make wishes ?wat r those wishes for ??n how often the wishes will come true?I used to make wishes when i was 15 years old back in hong kong ..."Wong tai sin" temple ....n my wishes did came true .....I was so GLad ...but as wat ppl said ..u always pay back once u obtain the wishes ...in terms of donations....Fruits ...etc ...as long as u did something that seems to be a good things, or good will ....then that will means that u r paying back to the GOD for the wishes that came true ...I been doing good things for all these while ...trying to be good to others. ....and even been a fool in R/s ..and end up getting Hurt and SAd ....but when will these ends ??I try to be my best ..and hopefully ...GOD will see that n hopefully my life will be better ...!!

Another wishes made in ROME .......but seems like the wish doesnt comes true .....At least i did tried ....n maybe there is another meaning behind it ...I tried my best to achieve something n I will still tried my best to achieve my target ...I will nv get defeated easily ....!!!this is wat i promise to u ..to everyone that love me ..!!!thank you again ..!!


Silly Ben making wishes tat doesnt seems to happen in life ..!!!

Ignorence

Being ignore or being isolated when u need someone the most is always the hardest thing to take...Especially when u r in a hard situation or difficult senarios that u need someone to consult u ...give u advices ....or someone that u can moan to in order to release stress or temper ...but if the person that u wanted to get in touch with being such an ignorence person.. then wat u should do ?give the person a big wack ?or give the person an excuse that that person is being busy or watever. ....always put expectation on someone and end up getting upset is not the best thing to do...ppl always being selfish where they onli care bout themselves no matter in terms of money, relationship, life and etc....but why should we?As wat ppl said ....watever goes around comes around....as long as u r good to someone ...even if they don appreciate it ....someone will ...n i believe that too...I think i need to stop saying the fact that ...SAME SHIT ..DIFFERENT DAY ..!!!need to be ...DIFFERENT DAY...SAME SHIT instead ......!!!